Betty,

What a beautiful day for you. You did so many special little touches, that I know mean a lot to a person undergoing treatment.
Listening to your sister's wishes is so very important. So often families try to change the subject or joke their way out of listening to things like funeral wishes. But, they become every important to many of us.
As you know, there will be worse days, but I bet you'll go a long way to find a better day.

Good for you and your sister.
Take care,
Dinah