Leggsy,
I also think you have come to the right place! This website is so informative and full of people who have first hand experience. I am not a survivor, but caregiver/family member. If I can help at all, please let me know. Email questions or post here! Lots of luck on your project.....you will come out of this experience a different person, guaranteed. I'm sure in some way or another, it will change you.
Good luck.
Brooke