Robert,
Glenn is giving you some excellent advice, as is Marica. Get some help and let your thoughts be on your wife and child, rather then something you don't even know is a part of your life yet.
Keep us informed.
Minnie

SCC Left Mandible. Jaw replaced with bone from leg. Neck disection, 37 radiation treatments. Recurrence 8-28-07, stage 2, tongue. One third of tongue removed 10-4-07. 5-23-08 chemo started for tumor behind swallowing passage, Our good friend and much loved OCF member Minnie has been lost to the disease (RIP 10-29-08). We will all miss her greatly.