Hi Charity,
Your Mom has been such a great support for so many of us on this forum I hope that we can begin to repay her kindness. Vent away, it helps. Our thoughts will be with all of you this week.
Regards JoAnne

JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.