Hi Bill....glad your here.. i would say the best bet is the 2nd opinion.. beleive me i know it made a difference in our lives by going.. i say learn all you can learn and go with what you feel is best for you but i do recomend that 2nd opinion so you have something to go on in compairison...
oh and Bill do you by any chance know any Van Horns in Ohio...i was married to a Van Horn and all 3 of my children are Van Horns..