Welcome Liz61!
I’m sorry to hear about your friends situation. About 80% of base oropharyngeal cancer, mainly tonsil and base of tongue, are
HPV related and have excellent treatment response. Finding a cancer doctor, on our case an ENT, is an important step. Being in NYC, like myself, you have access to some of the top head and neck cancer doctors and facilities around! Even still, insurance and other matters can offer the whole country, but I stuck it out here, and met some of the finest doctors and support staff in the industry.
Who did the biopsy to identify the cancer?
A few top places in NYC (manhattan) in no special order are:
Mt Sinai
Beth Israel Mt Sinai
NY Eye and Ear Hospital Mt Sinai
Memorial Sloan Kettering
Columbian Pres
NYU
I hope this helps.