Do you have a first opinion on your treatment options yet? I couldn't quite tell. And yes, if it makes you feel better, it's worth getting a second opinion, if you can find a doctor you trust. Are you going to take that friend with you to your appointment? It's a really good idea to have a second set of ears to listen to what the doctors tell you, because as you've already noticed, it's really hard to focus and remember sometimes. ((Hugs))

Hopefully Christine or somebody will chime in soon ... one of the long-term members who really has a great grasp on the things to remember and ask. I feel like I'm still learning, myself, most of the time. But I wanted to post anyway, just so you know you're heard, and you are NOT alone.