The best thing I can tell you is to read as much as possible on this forum and absorb the info. Even with your medical background there are so many little things you can learn from our site to make things easier for your husband and also yourself.

If you can line up some helpers that would make this much easier for you both. Even if you get 2 people to each take a day of the week and help by driving your husband to his treatments it helps take alot off your shoulders.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile