Hi and welcome. I know exactly what you mean because I've had two types of cancer too and wasn't a smoker, didn't drink much. There are quite a few other pathways to this disease but it's natural to feel cheated by fate when you don't have the main risk factors.

You will get a lot of support here. I'd say most of us have had neck dissections and radiation. One of my doctors said, "It's very tough treatment but we get people through it." I found that to be true. They did get me through it. On top of that I had this OCF site to help me. Just writing things down helps and when there's an understanding audience it's even better.

Two cancers in two years is a real blow. Your body and mind is going through so much. All I can reassure you with is that neck dissections and radiation are doable and they are effective.

Other people will be along soon with words of comfort and advice.

Best wishes