Missy, I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. It is a good thing that he can still walk around and he is in the comfort of his own home. My father spent his last 2 weeks in the hospital, couldnt move or eat or say anything much.
Time is so valuable now - spend as much of it as you can with your husband. Give him every meal that he wants. Keep turning on soothing music and keeping his mood lightened. Cheer him on and tell him it's all going to be okay and the journey ahead will be a beautiful one!

Big hugs. And also take care of yourself. Sometimes a caregiver focuses so much on the patient that we end up being unwell physically and emotionally.
Praying for you and your husband and hoping God will give you the strength you require to face the upcoming days.



Father had oral cancer stage 4A. Diagnosed 17th May.
Partial glossectomy and graphing done from hand.
Radiation 30x. Chemo - cisplatin 6 rounds.
Finished chemo and radiation in Aug.
PET - Nov - recurrence and spread to liver and lungs
Chemo started - erbitrux and 5fu.
2 rounds done.
Passed away 12/23/2014 - i believe he is in a much better place now smile