Welcome to OCF! Im very sorry you are here for your fiance. It pretty unusual for someone to have a tumor in their parotid gland diagnosed. It could be a little while before anyone with a similar diagnosis responds.

Anyone who undergoes radiation for head and neck cancer should wear fluoride trays on their teeth. This can help prevent dental issues after rads. Also using a waterpik, having impeccable daily dental maintenance and getting regular (if not more frequent) dental cleanings.

A good prescription medication for nerve pain is neurtontin I think its also known as gabapentin. I used this when recovering from my mandibulectomy (half lower jaw removed) when the pain was enough to stop me in my tracks.

Best wishes to you both!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile