This is a forum unlike any other. Just what goes on behind the scenes by all those concerned with the technology and the smooth operation of this website is awesome to consider. So many individuals are are involved and concerned with the safety of those who come here for accurate information and true, compassionate help. On the social media sites, although there are some positives, you can never be sure about the accuracy of any comments or advice given by unknown agencies or individuals. Years ago, when the internet was fairly new I saw a cartoon showing a smiling dog sitting at a computer, with the caption: "When you're on the internet, nobody knows you're a dog". This is true. Those who make hurtful comments are stupid and not worth your time. So, Estelle - stick with us. We always "play nice".