Thanks, Don. I don't feel like the doctors are telling us what they're really thinking. They seem to mirror how he feels - so if he's feeling fairly good, they say it's a good day. Even when I ask for more details, I get a runaround. For instance, when I asked the RO what we do if it comes back, he swore to me it wouldn't - "Why would it? I wouldn't have done all this treatment if it would come back." Now you and I both know it CAN come back, so I just found that comment so flip. If I press, my husband gets mad and accuses me of wanting him in the ground, like I have power over the Cancer. The ONE time I put my foot down, because hubby was making inappropriate decisions for someone with Stage IV cancer, they finally did the biopsy on the original lung lesion, which turned out mets. I fear they will be the type of doctors who put their patient into hospice the day before they die, and I want more prep time than that.