Hi,my name is maris40 and I'm new to this forum. My daughter had surgery for tongue cancer and I'm living with her and hubby. While he works I'm alone with her during the day and she hardly speaks to me anymore about things. Before the surgery we had many nice adult conversations,I'm beginning to take this personally,but I know better,which is why I need this forum.I just don't know what to say to her anymore.

Last edited by ChristineB; 10-03-2013 09:28 PM.

I am a caregiver and parent whose adult daughter was diagnosed with stage 3,scc and who has gone through surgery,it has been 4 months since surgery and our relationship is quite strained as to where we don't talk anymore except about superficial things.Anything I say is wrong,so I don't know what to say anymore. I'm really at my wits end,trying not to take it personally.