If it's any help I am a 30 year old mom to two little boys, ages 3 and 6. I was just diagnosed with polymorphous low level adenocarcenoma, which is rare but fortunately not aggressive and has a good outlook. It's possible that the surgery to remove the tumor is all the treatment I need. It is scary, my mind can't help but think what-if's sometimes. But the other replies are right, they give us a reason to fight! Keep you chin up, I will too, and I hope your outcome is that you don't have cancer!