To all of you - thanks for your wise words. You folks have helped me turn a corner here. I am indeed going to get proactive and get supplemental opinions I also no longer am feeling like it's be the right thing for me to do to simply look for the closest, cheapest exit. You've been a big part in changing my outlook. Please accept my most sincere thanks.

SCC Started in the right tonsil they think, T1N2bM1
HPV+
Lots of nodes involved including some near the carotid - didn't come out during neck dissection
Distant Met's - one in the mediastinum, some suspicious stuff in the lungs
Radiation 70 Gy in 35 fraction
Cisplatin - 3
Stereotactic rad to the mediastinum
Clean PET Apr 13
Clean PET Aug 13
Clean PET Dec 13
Clean CT with contrast Mar 14
Clean CT with contrast Sept 14
Clean CT with contrast Feb 15