Thanks for you wisdom guys, believe me, I take what you say to heart. (And thank you for "moving" me- I hadn't noticed the Adjunctive Therapies thread! )

Stage 4: Mid-line BOT primary; Left Lymph Node 4-5cm HPV+
Chemo/Rad 10/08/12; 3 big doses cisplatin
Updated 10/16 refusing Cisplatin; due to side effects
Considering Carboplatin; discussing with doctors.
Corp. Trainer- South New Jersey
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