Wife recently diagnosed with carcinoma on cheek. Been to one EEN doctor and after talking to him decided on going to a Cancer Center. She has a Cat scan this Friday and then meets with the new surgeon. Naturally concerned as she is 80 and suffers from Crohns. Putting together a list of questions for this first visit. Need suggestions to add to list. Have formed some from reading here. Thanks

Caregiver to wife with stage 4 oral cancer. Cheek and 2 lymph nodes.Diagnosed April 2012. At age 80 decided against major surgery.Currently doing 9 chemos and then 7 weeks of radiation/chemo.