My 78 year old father was just diagnosed with neck cancer that is staged between a 3 and 4. Apparently it is not just in the area of the neck initially suspected but also one the tongue and one vocal cord is paralyzed. It may also have started to spread to the other side of the head/neck. The Dr. is recommending radiation and chemo and my dad is struggling with what to do. The oncologist won't give a blunt prognosis but does want to start radiation asap. We are trying to gather as much information as possible to make an informed decision. For example, if chemo is not going to significantly expand the quality of his life then my dad needs to decide if he wants to go through it. Any information or experience with this would be appreciated. Thank you.