I sent you a pm because I am going through similar scenario with my husband, Andy. I am not sure if I sent it successfully.

I hope that John is still comfortable and that you are doing as well as possible.

If you have a free moment, would you contact me at my email in my profile.

Much appreciation,
Robin Kromis

Last edited by ChristineB; 10-09-2011 06:36 PM. Reason: removed email address

Robin, caregiver to husband, Andy (57 yo non-smoker)
1/2011 dx scc stage 4 -primary- tonsil/bot
2/2011 surgery/rnd/ imrt rad/ 3 cycles cisplatin
6/2011 recurrence - mets to bone
7/2011 tx carbo/erbitux/5 FU- pet showed disease progression
11/2011- present clinical trial