Hi Suez..I have read through some of your posts and I can certainly commiserate with you. I think I may have said something in an earlier post that my husband has always been kind of standoffish even to me..which is beyond annoying. He fluctuates as far as his meanness level, either way I keep my distance, it's not worth it to me to get into any kind of argument with him. I stopped working to care for him and am looking for another job..that is going to be difficult..I need to be out and about and being productive. Hopefully this too shall pass...however not soon enough..