Sallie - I am so glad you found this place! You will always find someone here who has been where you are, plus there is so much great information available and best of all a very compassionate ear to help you get thru the experience. My son was already in Rad Tx when I found OCF and I don't know what I would have done without the knowledgeable help and advice and great ideas I found here. I know it is so hard to watch someone you love suffer so much and to know what to say or do. Stay with us, come here often and let us know how you both are doing.