My husband told me just two days ago that his oral surgeon (he was having his jaw made ready for implants) found cancer in his mouth. All we know is that what he found was a stage II, and in the second stage of stage II cancer. What does that mean? We are going to see the Doc together in a week, but I can hardly stand not knowing what is going on. If I feel like this, what must my husband be feeling? It is like I am walking under water right now, or like I am living some other life. Can anybody give me some words of comfort as we wait for the appointment? It is hard not telling my family or people I can about what is happening. He doesn't want to share this info until we know more. He is a very private person. Help!