Dear Jim, Today will be one of the hardest days, if not the hardest day, you will face. I hope you have plenty of people with you today--let them be strong for you. When you are alone and the grief won't let you rest, please know that you have your OCF family to be strong for you as well. You are loved.

The first year is full of anniversaries and "firsts". But, as time passes it will get easier. However, it will never go away. I don't think we'd want it to anyway.

My heart is with you today and everyday,

Sandy
xoxox


Ex-spouse MISDIAGNOSED with SCC-HN IVa 12/10. Tonsils out 1/11. 4 teeth out 2/11. TX Erbitux x2, IMRT x2 2/11. 2nd opinion-benign BCC-NOT CANCER 3/11. TX stopped 3/11. New doctors 4/11. ENT agrees with 2nd opinion 5/11. ENT scoped him-all clear 7/11. Ordered MRI anyway. MRI 8/22/11 Result-all clear.