Welcome to OCF DixieBlu. There is alot of important info on both the forum and also on the main pages. Gabe is correct that there is alot of support here under the caregiver tab. Your mother can also seek out her own therapist. Another idea is to check with the place your stepfather is being treated. Some large facilities have great programs to help cancer patients and their caregivers.

Best of luck with everything you are facing.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile