Hi Geraldine,

Welcome to OCF. We all understand the fear you are experiencing now. We have all felt scared and it is totally normal. I urge you to stay active on the forums here and ask as many questions as you have. There are a lot of people who are caregivers and they can help you. I always tell people I think it's easier to be the patient. Hang in there and know you and your husband are not alone...we are all here for you.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)