thanks everyone!!

fortunately he is open to the idea of taking antidepressants. i never considered caregivers also taking them but i am not surprised. they go through just as much.

i'll keep you posted on how it goes with them over the next few weeks- does it take effect immediately?

i was a psych major, i really should know this!

*KATIE*
future FIL dx with s4 SCC in jaw11/09 15 hour surg/trach/PEG in. 7 weeks of cisplatin/rads. 6/10- cancerous lung nodule- 1 wk of radiation. 8/13 pneumonia. 8/24 pulmonary embolism, on ventillator. 9/3/10 died peacefully w/o pain with family. 9/17/10 my wedding