David, I literally just got on with a pen and paper ready to interpret people's signatures. True story. And in my rational moments I know I'm trying to figure out things that I shouldn't. But I'm also trying to sort out what the MD said vs what people say here(and my money in on here) till we get to Sloan.

For example, MD told me he didn't see anything specific in Dave to indicate lung cancer but it is very common if it has gone into the cervical lymph node. (By the way, he said this without prompting. I wasn't even thinking of lung cancer. I was too busy trying to figure out what oral cancer is). It's a hell of an image to sit with while he is doing his PET.

I can't tell you how much I want to sit across from a calm, bright person and get some answers. Except for one 25 minute office visit all these conversations have been on the phone with Dave or I and then comparing notes. Not a good way to get info.I tell you.
And David,I love your signature line!!!


CG to Spouse BOT, Chemo and radiation started on March 29,2010
Ended on May 14,2010. LET THE HEALING BEGIN!!!