Jim, I can certainly see why you say that. I have quit reading other places on the web and am sticking to here.
Brian, that post was so clear. Can you give the ENT some lessons???

Ok some of it is coming back to me as I read your post. He thought there was concern for spreading because the involvement while on one side(per MRI) was the clavicle. I guess because it's lower it shows more possibility of spread. Is cervical node stuff unusual?

I will call you tomorrow(THANKS) to discuss the Sloan appt. Dave reminded me that they wanted the PET before we went. He does that tomorrow with results coming back by Wed(I think). The appt is for the following Tues. Does that seem too long? Believe me, I will raise the roof if I'm told to get him in faster.

Brian, for years I worked in the addiction field(still do actually) so I really have a healthy respect for the power of a substance. It can really call your name. Right now, he is off it but I'm not letting my guard down.

Theresa, we should establish a freak out hour. Once a day, a virtual freak out...

Kelly, I'm not kidding(well maybe a little) when I say I'm going to jump the MS when we finally meet. I'm honestly holding back on some of the stuff this ENT does because I don't want to come off all whiny about it. But we have not heard from him once since Dave had the biopsy.All info is filtered through the primary. Who does that???