Great advice Donna!
Sometimes I lose sight of the things that give me pleasure and get bogged down in self pity - and fear about the future for my husband and kids. One thing that I have made a point of doing is catching up with friends that have been important to me, past and present. That is a great source of support and also changes my thought focus, at least for a while. I've got errands and shopping to do tomorrow, but plan to have a day in the country, including lunch at the beach, with my Mother and husband on Wednesday.

Sue


55 y/o
SCC LL Tongue 3/27/07
Part. mandibulectomy 9/2/07
Left ND 5/12/08
RT/Chemo
Rec LL Tongue 07/09
Part gloss 8/5 & 8/25
Surg 10/28/09 re mets to R neck & L jaw
RT & Chemo finished 12/22/09
PEG fitted 05/06/10
L buccal SCC 10/10
freeflap (forearm)surgery 2/28/11 L buccal and gingiva