Jim, I guess that's my way of dealing of sometimes. I hate when people try to blow sunshine up my skirt. For instance, before my last surgery the comments I heard were "you will be ok...you can eat a lot of ice cream" and so many more. I really just needed a day or 2 to feel sorry for myself..lol it sounds funny when I type it but it's true.

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)