Donna, I would imagine that this is your hubbys way of dealing with it. I have noone to complain to or bitch at, I don't drink or smoke so I take the frustrations out on my yards, front and rear. I really have never feared of going to any of the Drs because I know it is a necessity to do it. I look at things differently than most people do and face rhem without any what IFS. Just stick by your man and one day, he might realize it is for his own good to see the Drs as scheduled and he will be happy to see them and hope for some good news.