Tell him to getit out of bed and quit feeling sorry for himself. We have all been there and done that. The nest thing he can do is enjoy what life he has and try to be happy. It's hard believe me, but he shouldn't make you suffer with him. Maybe after the shock wears off he will act better. This is a rough disease and we all get grouchy with the ones we love. Like the song says, you always hurt the one you love.


Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here