#99640 07-17-2009 06:07 AM | Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 "OCF across the pond" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | "OCF across the pond" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | I received an e-mail today,part of which i have pasted below,inviting me to join a research team formed to improve the support and care of cancer patients and their carers.This has really lifted my heart as it seems such a positive way to honour robs memory and help all you guys battling on [quote] ] I am delighted to confirm that we would very much like you to join the COMPASS Consumer Research Panel and hope that you are still keen to come on board. If so, please reply to this email confirming your acceptance of this invitation. This panel is being formed at an interesting time for the COMPASS Collaborative. There is a focus on Supportive and Palliative Care research and on new initiatives covering Survivorship and End of Life Care. We believe that a high level of patient and carer involvement over the next two years will be important to help COMPASS achieve research that will eventually make a real difference to patients and carers. COMPASS researchers are dispersed throughout the UK academic community and the panel may be asked to contribute to a wide range of interesting research ideas and projects, all of which will have the objective of improving the experience of cancer patients and their families. [/quote Compass Collaborative Research I will do my best on everyones behalf love liz
Last edited by Cookey; 07-17-2009 06:39 AM.
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 49 | Fantabulous, Liz!
Like I said before, we are never done till we're done. You will do a bang up job. Best wishes and congradulations!
Donna
Caregiver to Hubby,Stage IVb, SCC to left tonsil, Mets to nodes, Tonsillectomy, Cisplatin,Taxotere,5FU x 3, IMRT 33 Rads + Carbo x 6, RND 03/09--Dx NHLymphoma 04/09, CT of chest, stom, pel--all clear, 05/09 Pet--all clear, 08/09 Pet--all clear
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Cookey,
I am really proud of you and I'm sure Robin is telling you to kick some butt.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | I echo David's comments - very proud of you and very happy that this Panel will have YOUR input. I feel you make an invaluable contribution to all of us here, and while I sometimes have a hard time sharing - I am willing to share you for this project!
Congrats. Robin is, I'm sure, very proud.
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
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Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,152 | Liz,
What a great opportunity for you to share your knowledge and expertise to help patients and caregivers. I am so glad that they picked you.
If there are other members of this panel that are not familiar with this cancer or forum, I suggest you have them log in here even if they are not H&N to get some insight into the many problems facing both patients and caregivers. While our physical side effects may be different than other cancers, the emotional, financial and every day living problems are not.
I know you will do a wonderful job and how nice it is that group is addressing this problem.
Take care,
Eileen
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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8 | Congrats on being selected for this panel. You have vast knowledge on this subject. Im sure your input will benefit many.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,301 "OCF Down Under" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | "OCF Down Under" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,301 | Congratulations Liz,
You will be such a huge asset to the research team.
History Leukoplakia bx 8/2006 SCC floor mouth T3N0M0- Verrucous Carcinoma.
14 hour 0p SCC-Right ND/excision/marginal mandibulectomy 9/2006, 4 teeth removed, flap from wrist, trach-ng 6 days- no chemo/rad.
6 ops and debulking (flap/tongue join) + bx's 2006-2012.
bx Jan 2012 Hyperkeratosis-Epithelial Dysplasia
24cm GIST tumour removed 8/2013. Indefinite Oral Chemo.
1/31/16 passed away peacefully surrounded by family
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Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 216 | Congrats, Liz....I know you'll be a huge asset!
CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10
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Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | Liz,
This is fantastic news.
You will surely make a major contribution with your knowledge and experiences.
Congratulations.
Jerry
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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Joined: Feb 2009 Posts: 88 | Liz,
This is great news and you will be awesome and supply some really critical knowledge and experiences that most people don't deal with. God bless you this is so needed in all countries. I have been a caregiver for multiple reasons inclusive this cancer stuff, but I also cared for my father-in-law who passed away from Alzheimer's and I'm not sure which is worse.
Good luck to you and I'm sure you will help so many more people.
Bonnie
CG to daughter Brandy age 31 initial dx 10/06
SCC T4N0M0 with bone invasion upper maxillary
Surgery 10/06
CT's clear for 2 years
2nd recurrence - Laser surgery 1/09 dx
Tumor board - No surgery to invasive for QOL
35 IMRT 3/30/09 Completed 5/15/09
8 tx Erbitux 3/24/09 Completed 5/6/09
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 96 | Dear Liz,
I can't think of anyone more qualified for this than you. You will do everyone a tremendous service I'm sure. I'll bet Robin is saying "You tell 'em how it really is"!
Lori
Lori, cg to H Ron, age 56.
Stage IV Oral SCC-T1N2. Tongue resected and right ND 8/05. Teeth removed, PORT, PEG, IMRT x33, Cisplatin x3. Tx ended 10/05.
Recurrence 7/08 Stage IV. Surgery 8/30/08.
2nd recur. 11/08. 2nd surgery 2/2/09.
3rd recur. 4/9/09. Erbitux wkly. 5/09-?
Ron died 6/6/09.
Lori also passed away 8/20/11, colon cancer
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Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 238 | Congratulations, Liz. I think it's wonderful that you were chosen to share your experience and knowledge on this panel - they are getting more than they bargained for!!! I know you will do a wonderful job and that Robin would be extremely proud of you. Take care - Nancy T
CG/Mom: 5 1/2 years SCC upper palate,4 recurrences, surgeries, chemo & radiation. Mom went to Heaven 1/21/11.
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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Thankyou nancy and my lovely lori
today is the second annivesary of Robs death,and i hope this project will help me move forward to become more proactive in the fight against oral cancer.The time has also come for robins dentist to return to court and have his performance over the last year reviewed with a view to lifting his supervision order. I am busy preparing a statement of my thoughts on the committees findings last year,which will be submitted to the panel.this time i have consulted a solicitor who is dealing with my civil action and she has given me some very strong guidance on things i should say.
The fight goes on
love liz
Last edited by Cookey; 07-29-2009 10:53 AM.
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | 2 years, wow.
I personally believe his dentist got off way to easy and I hope you have a chance to remind them of that.
Hey any news on his brother?
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,940 | Not a word David
thats a year past last week.
liz
Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | That is so weird. I just can't believe that with all this time and nothing has surfaced.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 595 | I cant believe that Robin has been gone 2 years already, seems like yesterday you were cherring me on and in one reply called me "the gun of naverone"! They could not have picked a better person for the panel. Givem hell for us on the other side of the pond!!! Semper-Fi Bob
Bob age 57, non smoker,non drinker, ended treatment on 11 Nov 2007 and started back to work on 29 Nov 2007. Veterans Day 2012 the Battle was lowered, folded, Taps was played and the Flag buried as I am know a 5 year survivor. Semper-FI !!!
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Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 453 | Congratulations on being picked for the panel Liz. You've helped me so much already with all of your experience and knowledge so it's wonderful you will be able to put all of this into practice through the panel. You already do and will make a huge difference to patients and carers. Robin will be smiling down on you for sure, as always x
Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone
No surgery
radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks
chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin
last TX 28/08/2009
25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity.
08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR
03/03/2010-Peg removed
01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap.
23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue
01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed
01/03/2021 chemotherapy started.
17/03/22 lost the battle. Missed dearly
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