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davidcpa #78754 08-15-2008 03:26 PM
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Joy

Im so sorry for your loss. Your father was well loved and well taken care of. May you and your mother find peace in knowing that. Wishing you comfort in this difficult time.



Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile
davidcpa #78764 08-15-2008 06:38 PM
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Joy,

You have been nothing short of a pillar of strength through the last 14 months. Your dad was lucky to have such a loving daughter and I know that he knew that.

I am proud to call you my friend.

Jerry


Jerry

Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.

"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
wilckdds #78869 08-17-2008 07:41 AM
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Awwww shucks Jerry. Just when I thought I had the tears under control you bring another one to my eyes.

My strength came from those that I surrounded myself with - which includes everyone out here. Some days it was just too hard to post, but I read every post and saw the stregnth and courage of others fighting the battle and I knew we would get through this.

Although I am saddened by the loss of my father, I do still have a lot to be thankful for. I get that from him, always being able to look for the good in any situation.

I hope that someday I can give back what I have received from each of you out here. Maybe if nothing else but to help another daughter who is walking down the same road I've been down. Although most of us have never met face to face, I am proud to call myself a member of this family.

I plan to retire to the island for a while. Rumor has it that Dr. Mike serves the ladies fancy drinks with the little umbrellas in them. As long as he is not wearing a speedo when he's serving, I'm ok with it. smile Who knows, I may even buy a fascinator (I think that's how it's spelled) to wear so I fit in. Something in pink maybe. Make room up there in that tree - I'm on my way up.

Love,

Joy



CG to Father, 75 yo with SCC of the mouth; upper maxillectomy and neck diss. performed on 5/23/07. Father also suffered heart attack during surgery and now has CHF. RT complete on 8/28/07. Cancer back 11/27/07. RT and Chemo to start on 12/17. Cancer back 6/17/08. Finally at rest 08/08/08.
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