Sherri:

Right now and the next couple weeks are the worst time of your mom's treatments. She needs pain meds. Ask her doc for the fentanyl patch, its easy and will give her a constant flow of pain meds. There is no reason for her to suffer when pain meds are available.

I also was reluctant to take pain meds. I had a wonderful nurse who explained that there is no reason to hurt after going thru so much. It will help the body to heal by easing the pain so she can rest.

It will get better very soon. Best of luck to you both.

Christine



Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile