OK all, I do have to say I am in the fight mood and will face the unkown and let it know i intend to win this war it has started again. This time I will win the battle hands down,, thanks for all the advice and encouragment you all have given me.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here