Barb, I wasn't all that bad and just was very miserable and it was hard to hise the fear,, like they say, you always hurt the ones you love. someday you will understand and change yoour way of thinking.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here