Oh Donna,
So sorry to hear about the new concerns--I hope your doc can give you something to help you through this--no-one is Superwoman and if anyone needs help, it's you right now. Your mom has HER doctors looking after her, and you can't do your caregiving if you're in a state!

Take care Donna and hope things are easier by Christmas

Love Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!