What matters is what he thinks. Each couple has thing that what work for them. You don't need to feel guilty if your trying to help him. What matters is you supporting him and he feels that through his process.


SCC R-Tonsil T2 NO MO Dec 2003. Completed IMRT Radiation only to tonsils(72Gy) and neck(55Gy)March 04. Detected at age 50.