I've only been here a few days and since this is anonymous for the most part, I feel I can be a little more honest and hoping for some guidance.

Background: husband has been verbally/emotionally abusive for a couple of decades. He probably could be diagnosed as a narcissist due to continual lying/deceiving/controlling. So here's my question: can a patient one week into treatment (1 chemo and 5 radiation) be an invalid one minute and unable to do anything and a few hours later be driving 5 miles to town to go get himself some fast food to eat? I don't know what to believe as there is such a history of lying.

thanks for all the advice i've gotten so far.