Hi. I am new to all of this and essentially I am looking for the most honest opinion on here. Here is my father's story the short version, he is wheelchair bound due to 2 strokes, limited right side mobility, resides in an assisted living facility and has for 10 years now, recovering alcoholic and hasn't smoked in 3 years (not by his choice) speech was affected by strokes and now due to the cancer severely impaired. He will be 60 in April. My family and I have met with his doctors to discuss his treatment options. Do we force the treatment on him not knowing what his quality of life will be after? His health prior to the diagnosis was poor and he has 1 working kidney. We are truly struggling with this decision so I was hoping someone who has experienced this family or patient can shed light on what my father would truly go through...