Hi Lola, I feel your pain! I too are waiting and agree its the absolute worst. My first biopsy was negative but ENT still concerned and now wants to do a bigger biopsy and look around under anesthetic so I'm still trying to figure out what all this means lol
Good luck!!! My biopsy is on Tuesday (next to base of my tongue)

Female 34. Non smoker, casual drinker
Dx July 12 stage 1 scc to left tonsil n0 m0. Hpv + 16 . 7 weeks daily rads finished sept 2012. 3 mth scan - low activity in primary spot hopefly t's just inflam. 2013 Abnormal tissue next base of tongue, came back negative. 5 month scan all clear!!!!! Yayy