After reading your poignant post to Paula on her imminent loss of Jim, I thought of this article as well as this post of yours. I only left an excerpt on Paula's thread, but wanted to share this complete New Yorker article with you Letting Go
65 yr Old Frack Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+ 2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG 2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery 25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin Apaghia /G button 2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa 40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin