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#44211 11-19-2004 09:07 AM
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Hello,
My brother has just received his results from his post radiation (lifetime max) checkup. They said they no longer see activity in the chest or lymph nodes and the tumor on the back of the tongue is shrinking. They said they may do more chemo or just leave it alone and let it continue shrinking. Will it do this? I thought it was best to cut the thing out if possible or do they wait until it stops shrinking? He was given a very grim prognosis in July - 8-10 months. I just don't know what this means. Any ideas?
Thanks. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Tonya


Sister of 32 year-old oral cancer victim. Our battle is over but the war rages on. My brother passed July 26, 2005. He was a smokeless tobacco user.
#44212 11-19-2004 12:44 PM
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Tonya
As you can see my husbands story is similar to your brothers. I dont quite understand why they would choose not to do surgery if the tumor is still there.
I do believe youn need to go back to the Doc and have him explain more fully what his plan is and why he has chosen this route.
Maybe your brother needs another opinion, I don`t think I would accept the 'wait and see' routine.
Let us know whats happening.
Take Care
Marica


Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!
#44213 11-20-2004 08:14 AM
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Tonya,

Please make it a point to write down these important questions you have before you go and during your visits and DO NOT LEAVE without answers to all of them in terms you understand and can live with. Doctors sometimes assume we know what they are saying and they disengage the conversation as they move on to the next patient. Make it clear you need more explanation.

Are you still pursuing MDACC? From the sounds of your post, things are improving for David.

Ed


SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023
#44214 11-21-2004 03:13 PM
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Tonya, this sounds like very good news for your brother. Congratulations. The rad/chemo can shrink the tumors and kill the cancer. That's what happened in my case. I do recommend that surgery be done to make sure all of the cancer is removed, however, I'm not a doctor. You should listen to your doctors, and seek additional opinions if you aren't comfortable with the treatment they suggest. However, the last checkup sounds like a great improvement. He will stay in my prayers.


Regards, Kirk Georgia
Stage IV, T1N2aM0, right tonsil primary, Tonsilectomy 11/03, 35 rad/3cisplatin chemo, right neck dissection 1/04 - 5/04.
#44215 11-22-2004 04:16 AM
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Thank you so much for your replies and encouragement. My brother was waiting on this last week's results in order to resubmit and admission form to MDACC. I have encouraged him to call them today, apply for admission again and have his current doctors send the results. I'm not sure he will do it. His next appointment with his current docs is Nov. 29th and he doesn't think Houston could get him in between now and then anyway, due to the holidays. I just hate waiting - even a few days. I will be accomanying him to the doctor on Monday and hope to find out more then. I just didn't know if it was a plausible solution to "just let it keep shrinking." They are talking about more chemo or a radiation implant as an option. His wife is so dead set against Houston - don't ask me why - and I am have to fight an uphill just to get her to contact them and have the info faxed each time. MDACC, understandably, wants to talk to the patient or his wife, not a pushy sister. Anyway, I guess at this point I will wait until we know more next week and then push MDACC more. Of course they have already turned him away twice, so who knows? Thanks for your prayers and thoughts. I will keep you updated.


Sister of 32 year-old oral cancer victim. Our battle is over but the war rages on. My brother passed July 26, 2005. He was a smokeless tobacco user.

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