HELEN IM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MUM, GOD I FEEL AWFUL, IM VETING ABOUT PAIN FOR A TONSIL. AND YOU ARE GOING THROUGH SO MUCH MORE PAIN THAN I EVER IMAGINED ONE PERSON CAN GET THROWN AT THEM, I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS..IF THERES ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP HELEN JUST SAY THE WORD AND IL BE THERE TO HELP IM ONLY A STONE THROW AWAY AS MY MUM WOULD SAY.....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.....LOVE AND HUGS TO ALL....