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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 65 | Thank you, Tammy. His surgeon said the same thing, one year, most unpleasant death. Right now Charles is looking at death as some kind of adventure. I'm getting him together with a group of our friends tomorrow morning to talk. His surgeon is a little over two hours away but we can have an email conversation with him too.
Wife/caregiver to Charles
ENT diagosed SCC Rt Tonsil Stage IV, MET 6 lymph nodes in neck 1/2001
Tonsillectomy, RND and six weeks RADS 2/2001
ENT diagnosis from CT scan, SCC in Rt tongue 2/13
25% of tongue removed 2/13 (clear margins)
SCC BOT with mets to 2 level 2 nodes and Lt. Delphian node 8/2014
Surgical biopsy shows cancer in larynx 9/2014
Laryngectomy, resection & rebuilt tongue w/ pectoral muscle, selective neck dissection 11/2014
Recurrences '16 HPV Neg No EGFR Mutations Detected
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Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 286 | There are a number of factors to consider that only the doctors familiar with his case, his disease, staging and prognosis, can tell you. I just hope that he has a very clear understanding of where the two paths lead. Its a difficult time for all concerned and I hope you are surrounded by the support you need.
Cheers, Dave (OzMojo) 19Feb2014 Diagnosed T2N2bM0 P16+ve SCC Tonsil. 31Mar2014 2 Cisplatin, 70gy over 7 weeks (completed 16May2014) 11August2014 PET/CT clear. 17July2019 5 years NED.
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Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 1,275 Likes: 7 | Having walked the path with John for close to two years, I have come to the realization that choosing no treatment is not necessarily a choice for a better quality of life. It can be just as painful and unpleasant as choosing treatment.
Gloria
She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails... Elizabeth Edwards
Wife to John,dx 10/2012, BOT, HPV+, T3N2MO, RAD 70 gy,Cisplatinx2 , PEG in Dec 6, 2012, dx dvt in both legs after second chemo session, Apr 03/13 NED, July 2013 met to lungs, Phase 1 immunotherapy trial Jan 18/14 to July/14. Taxol/carboplatin July/14. Esophagus re-opened Oct 14. PEG out April 8, 2015. Phase 2 trial of Selinexor April to July 2015. At peace Jan 15, 2016.
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 65 | After meeting with a group of friends, all pledging their support including financial, Charles has decided to have surgery. What a relief. Now I have questions about feeding tubes that I'll post. Thank you everyone. I could not have spoken clearly to Charles without what I have learned from all the brave and caring folks on this board. Thank you.
Wife/caregiver to Charles
ENT diagosed SCC Rt Tonsil Stage IV, MET 6 lymph nodes in neck 1/2001
Tonsillectomy, RND and six weeks RADS 2/2001
ENT diagnosis from CT scan, SCC in Rt tongue 2/13
25% of tongue removed 2/13 (clear margins)
SCC BOT with mets to 2 level 2 nodes and Lt. Delphian node 8/2014
Surgical biopsy shows cancer in larynx 9/2014
Laryngectomy, resection & rebuilt tongue w/ pectoral muscle, selective neck dissection 11/2014
Recurrences '16 HPV Neg No EGFR Mutations Detected
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Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2 | I'm glad to hear the news, if this was the desired outcome. I'm pretty sure it was and even though it may be tough, we are all here for you guys, also.
SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 1,291 Likes: 1 | LiliFoo,
Are we related? Are you my long lost cousin in NC? :-)
So glad your Charles is going forward with treatment. Best wishes.
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com | | | | | Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2 | A foo-foo here and a foo-foo there...
Please tell me you two don't have any poodles...the ultimate foo-foo dog. LOL
SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 1,291 Likes: 1 | No foo-foo in my life buddy. Just a lot of foo.....l LOL
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com | | | | | Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 65 Supporting Member (50+ posts) | | OP Supporting Member (50+ posts)
Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 65 | No foo foo here either! Just a cat, she lets us call her Johnson.
Okay. Surgery scheduled 9/11. Partial Glossectomy and flap, partial laryngectomy, bilateral neck dissection. No PET. Instead Dr. Is inserting a tube through his nose with the hopes that he'll be swallowing before leaving the hospital. If not they may insert a g tube before he leaves the hospital. I'm not really comfortable with this. Any thoughts?
Wife/caregiver to Charles
ENT diagosed SCC Rt Tonsil Stage IV, MET 6 lymph nodes in neck 1/2001
Tonsillectomy, RND and six weeks RADS 2/2001
ENT diagnosis from CT scan, SCC in Rt tongue 2/13
25% of tongue removed 2/13 (clear margins)
SCC BOT with mets to 2 level 2 nodes and Lt. Delphian node 8/2014
Surgical biopsy shows cancer in larynx 9/2014
Laryngectomy, resection & rebuilt tongue w/ pectoral muscle, selective neck dissection 11/2014
Recurrences '16 HPV Neg No EGFR Mutations Detected
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Joined: Jan 2013 Posts: 1,291 Likes: 1 | The topic of feeding tubes is a delicate one. For some reason a simple discussion about it can quickly turn into a blaze.
It seems the majority believe it is better to get one early, even if there is no immediate need. Others, me included, feel it is better to wait until you really need it. It can always be placed and working in a day or two.
Ask your doctors their opinion. All mine sided with the wait and see approach as long term swallowing complications can result from the swallowing function going lame from inadequate use.
Some folks are unable to regain their swallow function which leads to long time tube use.
Don Male, 57 - Great health except C Dec '12 DX: BOT SCC T2N2bMx, Stage 4a, HPV+, multiple nodes 1 tooth out Jan '13 2nd tooth out Tumor Board -induction TPF (3 cycles), seq CRT 4-6/2013 CRT 70gr 2x35, weekly carbo150 ended 5/29,6/4 All the details, join at http://beatdown.cognacom.com | | |
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