| | Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 805 "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts) |  "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)
Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 805 | So sorry for your loss Jane. I pray that you and your siblings can be at peace now, knowing she is not suffering anymore. She sounds as if she was an awesome warrior and a wonderful mom.
Blessings,
Kathy
Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14
| | | | | Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 117 Senior Member (100+ posts) | | Senior Member (100+ posts)
Joined: Feb 2011 Posts: 117 | Hi Jane
so sorry for your loss. Mom is smiling down on you now from a much better place, and of course no longer in any pain. You were a loving caregiver and I hope that your memories will help to comfort you and your family.
DX 12/6/10 of T3 SCC Tongue.
Surgery 1/3/11 was hemigloss & forearm free flap, midline mandibulectomy, Neck Disection-All nodes clear.
Ended rads 5/11/11. Taste buds back to about 80%. PEG removed 4/5/12, experimenting eating real food again. If I can do this, so can you !! Stay Strong.
| | | | | Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 "OCF Canuck" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | | "OCF Canuck" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | I am so very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. No matter how prepared we think we are, we soon find out that we were no where ready to release a loved one. My condolences to all of your wonderful family. Hugs
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
| | | | | Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 6 Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 6 | Jane I am so very sorry to read of your loss. You were a great help to your mother and Im sure you provided much comfort to her along the way. Im sure that by you coming here it greatly helped both you and your mother. Thank you for remembering OCF as a non-profit charity and giving donations. That is a very kind way to give back and help other oral cancer patients and caregivers.
I hope you will remember the happier, healthier times and take comfort in those memories. May your mother rest in peace.
(((HUGS)))
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: May 2012 Posts: 114 Senior Member (100+ posts) | | Senior Member (100+ posts)
Joined: May 2012 Posts: 114 | I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom  I just lost mine 4 months ago, I know how hard it is. I'm so glad you and your siblings were with her. She was surrounded by all the love in the world, and that is a priceless gift. Thinking of you and your family in this tough time.
Amy CG to mom Janet - diag w/ early SCC 8/11-surg w/ rad neck dissect & graft from arm/thigh 9/11-evid in nodes tx 6 wks rads (5/wk) w/cistplatin (1/wk for 6 wks) began 11/11-wk or 2 break 12/11 due to severe side effects-done 1/12- 3/23/12 mets to liver lung bone-hospice 4/7/12-lost fight 4/22/12
| | | | | Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 22 Member | | OP Member
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 22 | (((((Thank you friends)))) I have a lot of blessings I am so very grateful for...and I will continue to stay connected to this site and especially to this cause. Oral cancer knows NO bounderies...it is an insidiouse and cruel disease. And you that know first hand the courage it takes to fight this disease are the most amazing people I have ever had contact with and I continue to keep you all close to my heart and prayers. (I'm not sure where this post should be placed...so ((Christine)))! feel free to put it where it belongs. 
caregiver to 87 yr old mother,HPV +,Using Erbitux w/little success,Hole in palate, & 3 new areas..2 in cheek, now tumor in sinus. See Rad Dr soon & will cont. w/Erbitux. PEG tube in April. Macular Degeneration--chemo finished off her sight. Mom passed away Fri nite...8/24.
| | |
| Forums23 Topics18,168 Posts196,924 Members13,103 | | Most Online458
Jan 16th, 2020 | | |
|
