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#148237 - 04/14/12 01:24 AM Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two)
robindini Offline
Member

Registered: 04/14/12
Posts: 15
Loc: Connecticut
Hello everyone. I'm 33 years old and I'm a married mother of two boys, 2.5 years and 1 year. I was diagnosed with a squamous cell carcinoma in my tongue on October 17, 2011. A week later on 10/25/11 I had a partial glossectomy which removed 50% of my tongue, the tumor, and some of the muscle underneath. Due to the size and stage of my tumor, the doctor's performed a neck dissection on 11/29/12. Four days later I was hospitalized for an infection in my incision but was happy to find out the results of my lymph node biospy as 29 lymph nodes tested negative for cancer.

And arduous and long 7 week journey from diagnosis to cure has exhausted me but shown me strength at the same time. I am looking for support from others who have dealt with the same cancer as I regain feeling in my tongue and nerve damage in my neck and face. I would love to connect with other mothers with little ones as well.

It's been a bit of a delayed reaction for me going through what I went through so quickly. Not a day goes by where I don't think about cancer and getting ready for six week follow ups can be an emotional roller coaster.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to sharing with you all as we all learn more about oral cancer and how to educate ourselves and others.

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#148238 - 04/14/12 01:49 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: robindini]
terrib Offline
Senior Member (100+ posts)

Registered: 02/05/12
Posts: 143
Loc: MN
Welcome, you will find true friends here along with so much helpful information. Checking these forums has been my therapy these last few months. Wishing you a fast recovery. You must have amazing strength dealing with the cancer and keeping up with your 2 little ones!!
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Husband diagnosed Oct '11 Cancer of the vocal cord Nov '11 removed right vocal cord. Neck Dissection, cancer in one node, .2, very small & contained) Jan '12 Radiation and Cisplatin, 6 doses. June '12 & Dec '12 clear Pet scan. April '13 Celebrating 1 year cancer free since treatment ended.

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#148240 - 04/14/12 02:29 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: terrib]
Colette106 Offline
Member

Registered: 10/05/11
Posts: 7
Loc: Michigan
Hi Robin,

I admit I haven't posted here in a while but I saw your intro and I had to introduce myself. I was diagnosed just a couple days before you and underwent surgery 11/15/11. I am healing well, had clean nodes--well, to be honest, our situations sound incredibly similar (I am 29 and have twins that will be 6), and currently I'm just trying to get back to "normal."

Anyway, I just wanted to reach out to you and say hello. smile You'll be happy you found the board. Even though I didn't often post, I certainly visited on an almost daily basis when I first got diagnosed.

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#148250 - 04/14/12 08:34 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: Colette106]
ChristineB Online   content
Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services
Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)

Registered: 06/23/07
Posts: 8285
Loc: PA
Welcome to OCF! You have found the best place for getting info and support for anything related to oral cancer. Will you be having radiation or any further treatments?

We have several members who are younger survivors anf who have young children. My children were teenagers when I was first diagnosed. It was a teenagers dream, their mother losing her voice for a coupke weeks. LOL! It was temporary and they quickly learned to repond to my frantic arm waving and scribbling on a dry earase board 'NOOOO!!!!'. That was almost 5 years ago and life is much different now.

Best wishes with your continued recovery.
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Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07, no caregiver
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo extended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line w/ IV antibiotics 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3 times in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile

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#148266 - 04/14/12 01:47 PM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: ChristineB]
Cheryld Offline
"OCF Canuck"
Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)

Registered: 12/22/10
Posts: 4805
Loc: Toronto canada
Hi there... And welcome! We've had similar cancers - I had one lymph node involved though (40 removed), and despite my dr. Being certain he'd got it all, and that in his very educated opinion I was cured, I still did radiation and chemo. That's a good bullet for your to have dodged! Do keep an eye on your neck and be diligent with getting to know your mouth. That way you can spot any changes immediately. smile

l know its a lot - but you'll get through it.. I'm not sure how much sensation etc, will return for your neck and face... Some for sure but it will likely never again be 100% maybe 90 - smile mine is still stiff and numb one year out - I go to acupuncture weekly and this has helped a lot! Mind you I had radiation to the tissue so this definitely makes a different. As time passes you will adjust... It's scary crap but there are a quite a few of us here! smile and a few your age - I'm a few years older, and lost a little less of my tongue... But it's still very similar. Take care and we're here to listen and help!
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Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan

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#148271 - 04/14/12 05:50 PM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: Cheryld]
robindini Offline
Member

Registered: 04/14/12
Posts: 15
Loc: Connecticut
awesome! So impressed by the quick response. Very heart warming indeed to finally find someone who "gets it". I know that I am incredibly fortunate to have had the circumstances happen as they did. I am reminded of that everyday. I did lose 50% of my tongue but my doctor and friends continue to be amazed at how well my speech is. I hear a lisp and hang up on some words but to have gone through what I did and still be able to speak, amazing. So grateful.

It's such a weird pain to feel nerve sensation coming back in your mouth. The first few times I had spicy food was really interesting. Having a beer or wine was different wink I have to say the worst thing is my aversion to ice cream now. Ha! I ate so much of it before my diagnosis and after my biopsy and recovery that I hardly ever eat it anymore. Ha! I'm a huge ice cream fan so that's a shocker for me to admit.

I'm reading people's signatures and don't really know what all of the abbreviations mean but it's obvious you all went through quite a lot and I admire your strength through chemo and radiation. I really never went to "that place" when I was going through everything. I think that's where a lot of the fear rises from follow ups. I know that if I was ever to have a reoccurance that would probably be the first option but I try not to think about it.
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neg lesion biospy 1/2007; lesion found 3/2011; baby boy 5/3/2011; biopsy 10/2011; diag. 10/17/2011 T2,SCC tongue; 10/25/2011 part. glossectomy 50% tongue rmvd w/muscle; 11/29/2011 neck dis; HSP 12/3/2011 infection of incision; 12/5/2011 29 lymph nodes negative for cancer. No chemo/radiation.

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#148272 - 04/14/12 06:56 PM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: robindini]
ChristineB Online   content
Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services
Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)

Registered: 06/23/07
Posts: 8285
Loc: PA
Robin here is a list of abbreviations. Aftr a few posts you will become a pro. The abbreviations you will pick up qickly.

OCF Abbreviations


Edited by ChristineB (04/14/12 06:57 PM)
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Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07, no caregiver
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo extended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line w/ IV antibiotics 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3 times in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile

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#148287 - 04/15/12 12:54 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: ChristineB]
Cheryld Offline
"OCF Canuck"
Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)

Registered: 12/22/10
Posts: 4805
Loc: Toronto canada
Hi again... You speech will continue to get better. My dr said I might have a lisp when I get tired. Personally I notice it but am very surprised when I leave a message and listen to it back and realize I sound normal! I do film work, and went for an audition last week, and got the job... It's scary because you're self conscious but sometimes it's without reason. missKate here lost her whole tongue and doing phenomenally well.
I love ice cream it's one of the few things with sugar I allow myself. It took a long time after radiation for my mouth to get accustomed to temperature. For a long time Luke warm was the only temp I could tolerate... But slowly things improve.

Good luck! You'll heal and eventually Things will return to normal.


Edited by Cheryld (04/15/12 12:54 AM)
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Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan

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#148289 - 04/15/12 01:25 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: Cheryld]
David2 Offline
Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)

Registered: 07/12/09
Posts: 1252
Loc: Los Angeles
Robin, welcome. Compared to what you've been through my experience was a walk in the park. Congratulations on everything. I can't imagine how difficult it must have been with children that small, but you're handling it like a veteran.

I was so glad to read that the nodes were clear. Along with Christine I'm curious whether or not you'll be having any additional treatment. Please keep up updated as things go along.

You're one of my new heroes.
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David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage II TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 5 years all clear in 6/14

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#148292 - 04/15/12 01:31 AM Re: Hi, I'm Robin (survivor/mother of two) [Re: Cheryld]
Kerri Offline
Platinum Member (300+ posts)

Registered: 08/08/11
Posts: 495
Loc: MA
Hi, Robin!

I read your post and thought that we practically went through the same exact experiences at nearly the same exact time!

I don't have a lot of time to respond to your post right now, but I will certainly be back to tell you more.

I was pregnant with my second child when I was diagnosed and had surgery. Were you pregnant at the time as well? Read my signature at the bottom of this post and you will see a "snapshot" of my experience.

I have gotten to know and have heard of many pregnant women getting this type of cancer who had no risk factors. There's got to be something there.

I'm so glad that you had clear nodes! I can totally relate to the emotional rollercoaster...we all can. We are just right along the same timeline! I look forward to getting to know you a bit more!

Please keep coming back!

Take care,
Kerri
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37 y/o fem at Dx (23 wks preg @ dx on 3/16/11)
SCC L oral tongue (no risk factors)
L partial gloss/SND 3/28/11 @ 25 wks preg
T1-2N0M0; no rads/chemo
Tonsillectomy on 8/6/12 +SCC L tonsil T2-3N1M0 (HPV-)
Treated with 35 rads/7 carbo & taxol (Rx ended 10/31/12), but many hospitalizations d/t complications from rx.
3 clear MRIs w/ & w/o contrast since Jan '13 NED!
Part of genetic study for rare cancers @ MGH.
Just turned 40 and grateful! Hoping for 40 more!

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