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Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 5,260 Likes: 3 | That is fantastic - you are a great daughter inlaw and caregiver!!
Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan
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Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 805 | Hi Marlen,
I just became a member last fallish so was not really a part of your journey, but from one caregiver to another...you ROCK!!! It was my husband going through tx, but we also have 3 kids and my 86 year old mom moved in with us August of 2010. I can completely relate to what you have been through and you sound positive and upbeat!! You are obviously a gracious, loving person. I got chills reading your post!!
Best of luck on the continuation of your journey.
Blessings,
Kathy
Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 6 | Marlen, I am so happy that you have come back with such great news! I love when members have success stories. Im sure the past year has been a very long difficult one. A mandibulectomy is one rough operation. Recovery can be very long for some of us. Thank you so much for coming back to check in. I had wondered how your FIL made out. Please dont be a stranger!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | OP Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | Marlen - How wonderful to hear the great news! Sounds like your father-in-law is making such good progress! I'm sure the love and care that you and your family share with him have been a big plus in his recovery. Hope everything continues to get better and better ever day.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Feb 2012 Posts: 38 | One thing I was forced to become aware of, is role of lymph glands in healing. fluids normally flow to lymph glands, and when they are removed by surgery, or damaged by radiation, swelling is difficult to reduce. In my case, I still have oozing wounds on the scar line, and bleeding gums while sleeping, but have found, if active enough, muscle action dramatically helps, 15 months post surgery.
69yo male, Steam Engineer, Me=4,SCC=0, loving wife, living life as it comes (no other option)
We are all born from Mother, but live and die alone.
Make the best of it, Mommie did all she could, daddy was just a guidance councelor, the rest is ALL up to you.
...and now, 3rd occurance: Surgery 5/1/12
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